Time to go

Well... What to say. As everyone knows, my brother-in-law and sister are leaving. We had a "going away" party for them this weekend with all of the family and friends. I was asked by one of my friends (in a joking manner) "why have a party celebrating them leaving? Does your family care that trisha is following him to another country?". I just shook my head and shrugged it off, but the question did still stir in my head... "why were we having a party to celebrate my only sister and big brother leaving." It was only at the party that I realized the answer to this... We weren't celebrating them leaving, we were celebrating them opening a new chapter in their lives. We were there to show them that we loved them and we were there for them no matter how far away they may be from us. We were celebrating Mike's incredible opportunities and my sister's undying love for him. As this realization hit, I understood the second part of my friends question... Trisha isn't following, she never would, she is walking beside him... Hand in hand to wherever their lives lead them. Sure, I give Mike trouble about "taking my sister away", but I only say it in fun. I truly hope he realizes that I wouldn't want her to walk through life with any other man. So, as we draw inevitably closer to the day you both walk onto that plane, we shouldn't be sad or upset, we should rejoice. The shy young girl with so many dreams and aspirations has grow into a beautiful women. A women who is eager to explore a new world and start a new life with a man of great fortitude, strength, and the undying dedication to achieve his dreams. I want you both to leave knowing a few things...
We all love you. Our love is complete and unwavering and will be with you always.
Don't be afraid of the un-know... Many great things were un-know at one time and as long and you go hand in hand there will be familiarity in any situation.
Kiss each other every night before bed and every morning when you wake up... This will show each other that your love is just as strong as it was the day you were married.
Last, but not least, don't think of us as an ocean apart... Because we're not. We're there with you every step of the way and a simple phone call is all that separates us.
May the road rise to meet you,
May the wind be always at your back,
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
The rains fall soft upon your fields
and, Until we meet again May God hold you in the palm of His hand.
GOD has blessed both of your lives. We all love you and will see you soon.